Begin by caressing the thighs, the belly, the pubic mound, the breasts. Apply a soft and firm pressure to each area, allowing the hands to glide slowly up and down her body.

If it is pleasing, inhale the scent of her sex.

Lick the labia majora with wide, broad strokes, taking the time to allow her arousal to build. Applying pressure on the tops of the thighs can enhance the sensation.

With the hands at the tops of the thighs, use the thumbs to open her lips.

The vaginal canal is sensitive to pressure at the bottom sides. Apply pressure with the tongue or with two fingers, holding her sex open with the thumb and forefinger of the other hand.

What is referred to as the g-spot is a small mound of tissue up and to the front inside of the vaginal canal. Insert two fingers with the palm facing up and beckon with a come hither motion. Pay attention to verbal and non-verbal cues.

Use the underside of the tongue to make circles around the clitoral hood. Use the tip of the tongue to very carefully stimulate the clitoris. When she is aroused, she can take firmer strokes.

The inside of the bottom lip is very soft, and makes a good substitute for the rough upper portion of the tongue.

When she is panting, use the upper lip to pull back the clitoral hood and apply longer, firmer strokes with the tongue. At this point, it is necessary to pay attention to her cues to know when to speed up and when to slow down, when to go harder and when to go softer. The underside of the tongue works very well here.

Once she is fully aroused, her breath coming heavily, her fingers in one’s hair or her legs around one’s head, use the lips and tongue vigorously. There is as much pleasure in pressure as there is in direct stimulation, so push forward. Grab her hips and pull her into one’s mouth.

It is good to change up one’s technique regularly. When she is close to orgasm, stick to long, broad, swift strokes of the tongue from the perineum to the clitoris. Maintain this pace until orgasm. If she doesn’t come, relax and begin again with gentle suckling and kissing. It may take a few repetitions to build to satisfactory pleasure. Maintaining her sense of relaxation is paramount.

After orgasm, apply pressure with the mouth or hands to the pubic mound. Kiss gently.

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